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A beautiful teaching by The Brisker Rav (Yizkak Zev Halevi Soleveichick) explains some important lessons we can glean from the four special Shabbatot that we observe on our way to Passover. These are the Sabbaths Shekalim, Zachor, Parah, and Hahodesh, in which we orient to the holidays of Purim and of Passover.
On Shekalim we read about the half shekel that every Israelite was to give yearly for the fixing and maintenance of the Holy Temple. On Zachor we read about remembering Amalek, the enemy that sought to destroy us. On Parah we concentrate on the ashes from the roan cow ritual, used to purify us when we have come into contact with a decease person and allow us to make a Pesach offering in the Temple court. And on Hahodesh we remember when all of Israel stood shoulder to shoulder, ready to do God's bidding by slaughtering a sheep and using it's blood to mark their doorways before the exodus from Egypt.
These Sabbaths, the Brisker held, reinforce the teaching of the Mishna Avoth, in which Ben Zoma said the following: Who is truly wise? He or she who learns from every person. Who is truly strong? He or she who conquers their selfish impulse. Who is truly wealthy? He or she who is content with what he or she has. Who is truly honored? He or she who sets out to honor every one else. Shabbat Shekalim teaches us that in the end, all Israel was equal in maintaining the holy temple no matter how wealthy, as they shared the burden equally. What is important is the zeal one offers from the wealth they have. Shabbat Zachor teaches that no matter how powerful Amalek was, we could not be defeated if we remained vigilant and reinforced with faith. Amalek can also exist inside a person–his or her selfish impulse seeking to ambush us. We, too, need to be vigilant and prepared against it by conquering that impulse. Shabbat Parah teaches that no matter how wise one is, even someone as wise as King Solomon, there are unknowables in the Torah and in life for which there are no known answers. Only God has the answers. Shabbat Hahodesh teaches that all of Israel worked together and honored each other by working in concert and in solidarity “for the sake of heaven” and for their own sake. It was that unity that sprung them from their enslavement. It not only got them from Egypt, it began the process of getting “the Egypt” out of them.
As Pesach approaches and as we inhabit this holy time, let's be more fully alert to opportunities we have to honor “one another” this year, an in so doing, find our purest honor:
1) We have an opportunity to work for those who are downtrodden through our food drives and the tikun olam work we do on behalf of those who are in need. Our Torah reminds us 36 times to “love the stranger, because you were once strangers in the land of Egypt.”
2) We have an opportunity to honor and support our minyan of daily and weekly Shabbat davenners, and on Friday and Shabbat mornings, who so want your added presence and support. Let's not lose sight that ENJC is, at it's core, a faith community that finds it's primary purpose in providing a “community of faith.” When this weakens, our mission is weakened.
3) On April 15th this year at 7 pm., we have an opportunity to honor fellow Jews whose lives were cut short by a Holocaust brought upon us by enemies who sought our annihilation. Honoring their memory has become a new obligation of the Jewish calendar each year on Yom Hashoah. This year we will view the moving film Pola's March and have our young people join us in a special reading of children's poetry. Be a part of it.
Everyone of us finds his or her greatest honor in the manner in which we honor others. May this be an insight that we put into practice more these coming weeks, months and years.
The recent festivities of Purim were simply fabulous at the ENJC and we all realize that once we are celebrating Purim, Passover is "around the corner" and fast approaching.
Passover is certainly one of my most favorite of the Jewish Holidays, except for the physical work that accompanies the preparations. We change all of our dishes with no exception. This includes shlepping the Pesach dishes, pots, pans etc. from our garage, taking all of our regular ones out of the closets, unpacking and re-packing–OY VEI! Always a fun time of the year. However, all of this effort is inconsequential to the celebration and beauty of this meaningful holiday.
Did you know that Passover is probably one of the most celebrated Jewish Holiday of the year, as most Jewish families celebrate this holiday in some form or another? Having a seder, not eating bread, getting together with friends and family and so much more.
I would like to share with you a modern day commentary on the importance and meaning of Passover. We usually focus on the Talmudic scholars of the past to share their beautiful insights regarding Judaism and all of the laws and customs that are associated. It was my decision to go in a slightly different direction this year. Why do we celebrate Passover? We can all provide, I am sure, hundreds of meaningful answers to this question. I am going to provide a very diverse answer to this important question.
The children chant the beautiful Mah Nishtanah which contains four questions. "Why is this night different from all other nights?" On other nights we eat unleavened bread–tonight we eat Matzah. On all other nights we eat all kinds of vegetables–tonight we must eat bitter herbs, etc. As per a teacher of mine back in my Yeshiva days, Rabbi Suchard, the main question that we should be focusing on in is Why is this night different from other nights from a Jewish point of view. Yes, we focus on the four things that we do differently during the chanting of the Mah Nishtana. However, what about the evening itself? What is special about the seder socially and from a Jewish viewpoint as well? I am certainly not implying that all of the laws and customs that we observe during the seder and Passover are not important.
What makes the seder so very important socially and from a family point of view, is the fact we gather together to celebrate Judaism itself and our exodus from Egypt! How often during the course of the year do we gather together with family and friends to celebrate Judaism, Torah and the beauty of our religion? How often do we get together to celebrate Shabbat, Jewish Holidays and enjoyable events like Purim and Chanukah? Why does the Mah Nishtana chanting come at the very beginning of the seder? I believe that it is perfectly positioned to remind all of us that we don't need to wait a year until next Passover to get together to celebrate Judiasm! Shabbat is celebrated weekly. Why not have a massive celebration of Shabbat once is a while? Why not gather for other Jewish Holidays and events on a regular basis? I believe that this certainly can be a very important message for all of us as we sit down at our seder tables this year.
I wish you one and all a fabulous and meaningful Passover. Read More
Springtime is here and it couldn’t arrive soon enough! We’re done with so many weeks of temperatures below freezing! It has been “March Madness” at ENJC this past month, with nonstop activities for members of all ages. The “madness” started with our Purim Party on the 1st. 85 people wouldn’t let the eight-inch snow storm stop them from having a good time. Three days later, we packed the synagogue for a costume parade and children’s program, followed by the reading of the Megillah. Sisterhood hosted a Stress Management Workshop on March 10th. The following day Rabbi Ian held his Adult Education class. On March 12th the Men’s Club had a fun evening socializing at Miller’s Ale House in Commack. We had fifteen guys, including Chazzan Nussbaum, enjoying each other’s company, and we weren’t even holding a meeting or working an event—and that was just the warmup for the weekend.
The weekend of March 13th -15th was packed with five different activities—something for everyone. Talk about the value of your membership! The weekend began with 80 people participating in the ENJC dinner for Shabbat Across America, followed by our monthly Birthday Shabbat, highlighted with the singing of “Happy Birthday” to the Chazzan. Following Saturday morning Shabbat services, Rabbi held a Nosh and Drosh. That evening 46 women and men enjoyed the Annual Sisterhood Military Bridge/Chinese Auction. It was wonderful to see so many playing military bridge for the first time. On Sunday morning, the activities continued, as the Men’s Club sponsored Bima and Bagels. Over twenty ENJC members enjoyed breakfast at Bagel Boss after the Sunday morning services. That afternoon, the Sisterhood held a Challah Baking activity with an expert baking instructor.
The endless activities continued into the following week as well. On the 18th, Sisterhood polished the ladies’ nails at Gurwin, and ENJC’s Community Relations committee helped feed the homeless that afternoon through HIHI. On the 20th, we held our bi-monthly Tot Shabbat. Sisterhood held a Passover luncheon for the patients from Pilgrim State Psychiatric Hospital on March 22nd. And of course, there were numerous other activities and I did not even mention—all the usual monthly activities involving our youth groups.
My message is: Please get the most value from your membership! From attending services to enjoying something for you and/or your family, to giving back and helping others, ENJC is the place with something for everyone! Read More